Is he avoidant, or is he just not interested?

He listens, but only gives short answers like "yeah" or "uh-huh."

He shuts down, avoids the topic, or gets irritated.

He says your feelings are not his problem and threatens to break up.

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Когда ты пытаешься поговорить с партнером о своих чувствах, он…

He doesn’t always know how to support you, but he tries to be there for you.

He prefers to leave you alone with your problems.

He accuses you of being too weak, too dependent on him, and says that your problems are not his responsibility.

Когда тебе плохо и ты ищешь эмоциональной поддержки, твой партнер…

He doesn’t rush into decisions, but he’s open to talking about these topics.

He listens, but makes it very clear that he’s impatient and annoyed.

He shuts down any conversation about it right away, saying things like, “I never promised you anything” or “You always make everything so complicated!”

Dice que necesita un rato para estar solo, pero luego vuelve a estar dispuesto a hablar.

He disappears for several days without explaining why.

He disappears for several weeks, and if you reach out first, he either replies rudely or ignores you completely.

He agrees, but often chooses to be alone instead.

He agrees, but avoids discussing any concrete plans.

He ignores your requests or finds excuses to avoid seeing you. He accuses you of “always demanding something from him.”

He’s a little reserved, but he answers your questions.

He completely ignores these questions and changes the subject.

He gets tense, but still makes an effort for you.

He often refuses, saying he doesn’t feel comfortable with it. But the people close to him do know you exist.

He hides your relationship from everyone.

He rarely says sweet things, but shows care and love through his actions.

He almost never says “I love you,” saying that he “doesn’t know how” or that “love confessions are outdated.”

He doesn’t express love and ignores any requests for it.

He says it back, but not always right away.

He gets embarrassed or pretends he didn’t hear you.

He stops replying to your messages and calls.

He accepts it, but sometimes seems tense.

He shuts down for a while, but later comes back to the conversation.

He goes quiet and pulls away to avoid getting into a conflict.

He starts accusing you of nitpicking and not accepting him as he is.

He rarely makes the first move to reconnect, but responds when you reach out first.

He avoids contact after an argument, but then suddenly reappears as if nothing happened.

He prefers to disappear and makes no attempt to reconnect.